Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Handle Your Challenging CEO Client Successfully with “Yes, and”



Successful CEOs, entrepreneurs and surgeons (among others) can be difficult clients. Their very success misleads them too often into believing they know everything about how to be successful in their legal matter. Which usually involves their wanting you to do something entirely different from what you know to be the best approach to handling their case, or themselves as witnesses.

The temptation is to say, “Look, I don’t tell you what to do in your field, don’t tell me what to do in mine.” That may work with some clients, but it’s good to remember that many powerful individuals have an underlying fear of being exposed as powerless. It does not advance your work with the client to aggravate that fear.

Instead, use the “Yes, and” approach, which basically consists of the following:

1. Don't wave aside the client's arguments. Treat your client's analyses and suggestions with respect.
2. Then, go on to recommending/doing whatever you think is best. 

For example, “I appreciate that you want me to call Ms. Jones as a live witness, and I think our most successful strategy is to use her declaration.”

Notice, it’s not “I appreciate that you want me to call Ms. Jones as a live witness, but I think our most successful strategy is to use her declaration,” nor is it “I think our most successful strategy is to use her declaration instead.” You make no attempt to defend, rebut or otherwise resist your client’s perspective, you acknowledge it respectfully, and then go ahead with what you believe is the best course of action.